Every Child Is a Learner
Introducing the missing perspective: the child's.
A child's current communication, behaviour or level of independence does not tell us everything about their capacity to learn. This is especially important when a child has high and complex support needs or has difficulty showing what they understand through spoken language.
Our task is not to decide quickly what the child is capable of. It is to keep looking for how this particular child learns.
Parents know their child through relationships, routines, history and everyday life.
Professionals bring knowledge, assessment and observations from learning, therapeutic and community environments.
Both perspectives matter. But there is another perspective we need to understand: the child's.
As there is no single autistic perspective, what matters here is this child's perspective.
A child with autism may experience the same person, instruction, environment or expectation very differently because of their individual sensory processing, communication, attention, interests and ways of understanding information.
What overwhelms one child may attract another. What helps one child attend may distract another. One child may understand spoken information readily while another may understand far more through pictures, movement, demonstration or familiar routines.
So before bringing our adult perspectives together to decide what should happen next, we pause to understand what the child may be showing us.
How we work
- We observe
- Reflect & adapt
- Join
- Build
Observe Before We Intervene
Before deciding what needs to change, we watch and listen.
What captures the child's attention? What do they return to? What do they avoid? How do they communicate? When do they seem comfortable? What sensory experiences do they seek or avoid? When do they welcome another person into what they are doing?
Observation helps us begin to understand the child's perspective. Reflection helps us consider what those observations might mean.
Reflect and Adapt
Instead of asking only, "How can I change this behaviour?", we might ask:
- What might the child be communicating?
- Is the way I am communicating understandable to this child?
- Am I asking for too much spoken-language processing?
- Could the environment or sensory experience be making participation difficult?
- Am I approaching through something that already has meaning for the child?
- What can I change before expecting the child to change?
Then we adapt: perhaps by changing our language, slowing down, using visual information, reducing demands, modifying the environment, following an interest, or simply giving the child more time.
Understanding the child often begins with changing what we notice. Supporting the child may begin with changing what we do.
Join Before We Lead
Once we have begun to understand what has meaning for the child, we can enter their world before asking them to enter ours.
Join the activity. Follow the interest. Imitate the movement. Sit alongside. Share the sensory experience. Become familiar and predictable without immediately adding another expectation.
The message becomes: "What matters to you matters to me."
And from that shared experience, opportunities for attention, communication, play and learning can begin to grow.
Build From What Emerges
A glance may become an opportunity for shared attention.
An action becomes imitation.
An interest becomes an opportunity for communication.
A visual strength becomes a route into learning.
A familiar activity becomes an opportunity to introduce something new.
We are not beginning with what the framework says should come next. We are building from the abilities, interests, relationships and willingness that are beginning to emerge.
The child helps us find the starting point
The photographs follow Qasim's individual journey, showing how his interests and emerging abilities helped us discover meaningful starting points for his early intervention.
"What might we discover when we begin with what the child is already showing us?"
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We do not choose the starting point from the framework alone. The child helps us find it.
AAPT provides a structured way of bringing observations together, identifying strengths and emerging abilities, selecting meaningful objectives, and tracking how learning develops across people and environments.
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